Why do band wives have to get involved in our fandoms?

I mean seriously, you have the men we lust over, why can’t you just be happy with that? Why do you have to step into our fandom & get involved, making bitchy comments & using your husbands fame to promote yourself?

Stop trying to ruin our fun.

I put it down to insecurity.

It makes me sick.

If I can respect you enough to not get involved in your private life, stay the fuck out of mine & that includes my tumblr.

What’s worse are the people within the fandom who suck up to them in some pathetic attempt to validate themselves. We’re fangirls for fucks sake. We keep these bands alive, we keep them famous, we keep them wanted… we don’t need validation from some nobody sitting at home with nothing better to do than stalk tracked tags of their husbands names looking for a way to step in & ruin someone’s day. If it wasn’t for us their husbands wouldn’t be anybody. We buy the tickets. We buy the music. We run the blogs, forums & fansites. We post the pics, videos & spread news. We spend hours in the cold to get to the barrier, waiting after shows for an autograph, a picture & maybe, just maybe an exchange of words. We promote, we appreciate, we support. We are the reason they exist.

To all the band wives & girlfriends out there, from the bottom of my heart…

Thank you & goodnight.